28
Nov

I’ve been gone for a while. While I’ve been gone, I’ve somehow managed to lose a decent amount of weight. I’ve been working out more than I have previously in my life, but not so much that it should really have made an impact on my size.

Yet when I go shopping, I’m fitting into extra-smalls when I used to wear large or mediums for tops and I’m pretty consistently Smalls on the bottom. I even own a pair of pants right now that are labeled as a size 2! In full disclosure, these pants are from the Gap, which typically runs a bit big, but even knowing that, they are also skinny jeans.

You’re probably thinking now that I’m going to say that there’s something wrong with my body for me to be losing weight like this.

NOPE!

What I actually believe is wrong is the sizing in these clothes. Now, these are clothes from a few different stores that I’m wearing, so it’s not just one particular store, but rather it’s a sizing trend in general.

I’m 5 feet 7 inches (since I’m trying to stand up straight lately) and while I am getting close to very skinny for my frame, I do not have a small frame by any means. By that I mean that I have shoulders and I have hips. Call me crazy, but I wouldn’t say that 5’7 is terribly short for a girl, nor is it terribly tall. This to me indicates that if I am a small 5’7, then I should be wearing small or medium clothes.

I don’t understand how a girl who is 3 or 4 inches shorter than I am and has a similar build could possibly shop in the same places that I have been. If I’m wearing an extra small (today’s shirt that I bought yesterday happens to be labeled XS, but it’s actually a bigger fit than I would have liked) how could someone with smaller shoulders possibly find anything in that store to wear?

Something that I do understand is the growing waistlines of Americans as a whole. I’ve wondered a bit lately if that’s where this sizing issue is coming from. Is everything now being cut bigger so as to fool us into believing that we are smaller, therefore nudging us to buy more as a self-esteem boost?

I have to admit, I’m not a fan of this practice, though I have fallen victim to it.

I don’t meant that to come off as some sort of diatribe against bigger sizes, I just find it ridiculous that not only do clothing companies seem to be duping us into buying “smaller” sizes, but also that we seem to be falling for it.

I know this is a little whatever coming from a semi-size 2, but my size is not what gives or takes my own self-esteem. It’s things that I do that make me feel better and give me confidence, and to be honest, I was better with that when I was a size 8, a real size 8.

I don’t have a solution to this, and since I’m still buying these clothes I guess I’m part of the problem, but hey, at least I can blog about it, right?

  • Heather

    yeah it sucks ass for us shorter skinnier ppl… like it’s pretty much impossible to find anything that fits, thank goodness for juniors clothing and 00, and not from department stores, I mean I can’t walk into any department store and buy anything that fits even from the juniors, or any of those stretchy belts, I have to literally alter them to actually fit. Not to mention the fiasco with my wedding dress… Pretty much Kati, I know we have talked about this but it’s BS! I started ordering clothes from brazil a while back, now there’s a place they make stuff that would make any American feel fat lol. Oh and the top stuff… Short ppl are usually pretty close in size on the top as taller, probably because we all have to fit in the same amount of grown up organs and rib bones and so the frame can only be so small hehe.
    Places like GAP and Old Navy, Kohls, even express (but express is pretty much woman sizes not juniors so it’s not really their fault) make me cringe because the sizes are enormous and I really do think ppl enjoy shopping there because it does make them feel good to say they bought a size 4 when anywhere else that 4 would be a 10… The way to find out your true size it to buy a bridesmaid or wedding gown (and not from David’s bridal lmao)

    Point: I could fit (very tightly) in a juniors size 0 when I was 20lbs heavier than I am today… that’s saying something about sizing in America… Another pet peeve… Jeans that go by waste sizes, 23, 24, 25, 26 like that… I’ve never once been able to buy a pair of these jeans, they don’t make them small enough…

    On the flip side, I went shopping with a family member who is very large, and trying to find clothing for a young woman in the 2x and 3x that is cute and trendy is pretty much impossible as well :(

  • http://gloriouspursuit.blogspot.com Amanda

    First of all – welcome to In It To Gym It! I would’ve commented on your post there, but I really don’t use weights at the gym very often, so I don’t have much to offer, but I did want to say hi and this post definitely relates to me. I am 5’1″ and I had unusual measurements for someone my size, (36-26-33) and I have a terrible time finding clothes! I’ve had to start getting most of my stuff tailored which is not cheap, but does make things look awesome. Everything has to be hemmed for length and taken in at the waist – and don’t even get me started on button down shirts :) Unfortunately is seems that “vanity sizing” is here to stay. I agree that its pretty terrible, I understand too that people have issues with weight and I know from shopping with friends that heavy girls have trouble finding anything cute, but I wish someone (without a designer price tag) would realize that there are a lot of women who are healthy weight who would like clothes that fit. Good luck at the gym, don’t be too intimidated.